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I don't buy that. If we use the example of height alone, the vast majority of women would not date a man shorter than them regardless of whether the man has a "

I don't buy that. If we use the example of height alone, the vast majority of women would not date a man shorter than them regardless of whether the man has a "likable personality". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZbG05ePWRQE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZbG05ePWRQE

kaba0 5y ago
Fortunately women’s height shows a normal distribution, as well as it’s not like many 150 cm women would date a guy well above 2m. (Sorry, don’t know freedom units)
- amznthrowaway5 5y ago
  "How about actually having a likable personality, which easily tops all other qualities?" So do you now agree this statement is obviously false? Height is just one of the first filters women use, and often the requirement is more strict than just "taller than me". You also have to pass other commons filters. Another very important filter for most women is race, and we're just getting started.
  - kaba0 5y ago
    As opposed to men who all happily choose someone overweight from another race. But if you want to hate more than half of humanity, be my guest. But then don’t be surprised that someone from your hated group will not like you back...
    - amznthrowaway5 5y ago
      Men are definitely far less picky on average, for biological reasons, but that's not even related to this discussion. Hating half of humanity? What are you going on about? You made a scientific statement which was false. The truth is not politically correct and doesn't paint women in a positive light so you resort to accusing me of "hating women". OTOH you have an obvious hatred towards men and are even denying real issues that affect them.
      - kaba0 5y ago
        > You made a scientific statement which was false. It was hardly a scientific statement. Men like attractive women and women like attractive men, in other news the sky is blue... I don’t hate men at all, most don’t share this misogynistic mindset.
        amznthrowaway5 5y ago
        It was a false statement. You clearly would not stick up for short or ethnic men the way you do for women (who are already heavily privileged). Who determines what's attractive? Are you really suggesting society doesn't play a role? I've seen women with your left wing mentality talk about women's rights and BLM and then, in the next sentence, move on to making fun of Indian men and talking about how they would never date them. Most of society does share this hateful mindset. You responded by saying "the sky is blue", do you believe some races are objectively less attractive than others?
        kaba0 5y ago
        > You clearly would not stick up for short or ethnic men the way you do for women Based on what? > who are already heavily privileged Depends on country. I’m not supportive of some new-found feminist movements, but all for it in some Muslim secular countries where women are not allowed to drive and are all around thought of as the property of their husband. > I've seen women with your left wing mentality talk about women's rights and BLM and then, in the next sentence, move on to making fun of Indian men and talking about how they would never date them That’s called a hypocrite. And I don’t see how generalizing an entire gender based on n=1 is any different than your example where you rightfully was offended by the making fun of Indian men. You do the same shit for half of all people. > Most of society does share this hateful mindset. And a significant percentage of men also share the mindset that women are inferior/object, or other misogynistic shit. Neither should happen. > You responded by saying "the sky is blue", do you believe some races are objectively less attractive than others? Heh? In another thread I did write that men usually don’t want to have relationship with women of another race (and vice versa). But it is all around true, most cultures look down on interracial relationships — which is said.
    - matheusmoreira 5y ago
      > As opposed to men who all happily choose someone overweight from another race. They do. You think those women are single? They are not. I know one with 99+ likes on Tinder.
      - kaba0 5y ago
        And how is your single data point relevant?
        amznthrowaway5 5y ago
        It's a general well known trend. You can make a fake account and test it in a few minutes. Just like in many other animals, female choosy selection is the limiting factor, and the males either prove themselves or might as well die. That's where all this lack of empathy is rooted.
        kaba0 5y ago
        Any study? I would even wager that “ugly” girls have a harder time than “ugly” guys.

kaba0 5y ago

Fortunately women’s height shows a normal distribution, as well as it’s not like many 150 cm women would date a guy well above 2m. (Sorry, don’t know freedom units)

amznthrowaway5 5y ago
"How about actually having a likable personality, which easily tops all other qualities?" So do you now agree this statement is obviously false? Height is just one of the first filters women use, and often the requirement is more strict than just "taller than me". You also have to pass other commons filters. Another very important filter for most women is race, and we're just getting started.
- kaba0 5y ago
  As opposed to men who all happily choose someone overweight from another race. But if you want to hate more than half of humanity, be my guest. But then don’t be surprised that someone from your hated group will not like you back...
  - amznthrowaway5 5y ago
    Men are definitely far less picky on average, for biological reasons, but that's not even related to this discussion. Hating half of humanity? What are you going on about? You made a scientific statement which was false. The truth is not politically correct and doesn't paint women in a positive light so you resort to accusing me of "hating women". OTOH you have an obvious hatred towards men and are even denying real issues that affect them.
    - kaba0 5y ago
      > You made a scientific statement which was false. It was hardly a scientific statement. Men like attractive women and women like attractive men, in other news the sky is blue... I don’t hate men at all, most don’t share this misogynistic mindset.
      - amznthrowaway5 5y ago
        It was a false statement. You clearly would not stick up for short or ethnic men the way you do for women (who are already heavily privileged). Who determines what's attractive? Are you really suggesting society doesn't play a role? I've seen women with your left wing mentality talk about women's rights and BLM and then, in the next sentence, move on to making fun of Indian men and talking about how they would never date them. Most of society does share this hateful mindset. You responded by saying "the sky is blue", do you believe some races are objectively less attractive than others?
        kaba0 5y ago
        > You clearly would not stick up for short or ethnic men the way you do for women Based on what? > who are already heavily privileged Depends on country. I’m not supportive of some new-found feminist movements, but all for it in some Muslim secular countries where women are not allowed to drive and are all around thought of as the property of their husband. > I've seen women with your left wing mentality talk about women's rights and BLM and then, in the next sentence, move on to making fun of Indian men and talking about how they would never date them That’s called a hypocrite. And I don’t see how generalizing an entire gender based on n=1 is any different than your example where you rightfully was offended by the making fun of Indian men. You do the same shit for half of all people. > Most of society does share this hateful mindset. And a significant percentage of men also share the mindset that women are inferior/object, or other misogynistic shit. Neither should happen. > You responded by saying "the sky is blue", do you believe some races are objectively less attractive than others? Heh? In another thread I did write that men usually don’t want to have relationship with women of another race (and vice versa). But it is all around true, most cultures look down on interracial relationships — which is said.
  - matheusmoreira 5y ago
    > As opposed to men who all happily choose someone overweight from another race. They do. You think those women are single? They are not. I know one with 99+ likes on Tinder.
    - kaba0 5y ago
      And how is your single data point relevant?
      - amznthrowaway5 5y ago
        It's a general well known trend. You can make a fake account and test it in a few minutes. Just like in many other animals, female choosy selection is the limiting factor, and the males either prove themselves or might as well die. That's where all this lack of empathy is rooted.
        kaba0 5y ago
        Any study? I would even wager that “ugly” girls have a harder time than “ugly” guys.