At a certain level, nobody is asking for anything. A lot of things are negotiated without even mentioning the subject directly. When two people who understand s

At a certain level, nobody is asking for anything. A lot of things are negotiated without even mentioning the subject directly. When two people who understand such nuances find each other, it works seamlessly and without evidence. As for waiting to cash out, there are always ways: everybody has a favourite nephew or college friend, who has an IT consultancy/marketing firm/charity/pet zoo/whatever.