>It's not something you can talk yourself or someone else into. This seems based in some fantasy land, though. I'd be absolutely stunned if you didn't have at

>It's not something you can talk yourself or someone else into. This seems based in some fantasy land, though. I'd be absolutely stunned if you didn't have at least a few unattractive friends who do very well in dating/relationships/finding sex partners, because they are funny, or charismatic, etc (speaking about male friends here generally but this can apply to anyone). If attraction was as you described, no one would be attracted to anyone outside of pro athletes and supermodels. Clearly, many normal, non-models are quite attracted to their non-model partners.