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I understand the premise of what you're saying, but I also feel like you're downplaying the upside: > It didn't help that I was rewarded with more money, more

I understand the premise of what you're saying, but I also feel like you're downplaying the upside: > It didn't help that I was rewarded with more money, more respect, and more decision making power. I was even rewarded with more knowledge than everyone else -- you learn a lot working 12 hours a day. And if you screw something up you have plenty of time to fix it

0xFACEFEED 6y ago
This is true. I was only able to reflect on these things after "making it". I feel comfortable financially and confident that I'll get work for the rest of my life, if I need it. There was a cost though. Like a greek tragedy of sorts. It cost me my health. I don't get to enjoy the spoils of "victory" as much as I would have when I felt healthy. Health is now a factor to consider daily and, in my case, it's directly attributed to the insane amount of myself that I put into the work. Another cost was missing out on precious time with my wife and child. That one really sucks. No undoing that one.
- Starwatcher2001 6y ago
  I've been a developer for 40+ years and can really relate to this sub-thread. Now I'm spending time with my grand-children do I realise how much time I missed when my own children were growing up. Working those hours, building those products, helping the company grow, weeks on site, 96 hour weeks... all seemed so important then - and less so now. I still love coding, learning new stuff and occasionally burning the candle, but I'll never again make it my god.