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I think some imortant parameters are: age when you started and ended first marriage, age when you started second marriage, current age. I suspect sexual compat
by maest 5y ago
I think some imortant parameters are: age when you started and ended first marriage, age when you started second marriage, current age.
I suspect sexual compatibility lowers in importance as people age.
- capableweb 5y agoThe most parameters are: who you are as a person and all that comes with that. Saying that this matters less when that, or you'll loose interest in sex as you grow older simply won't fit for a lot of people. But for a lot maybe it will. But since all of this is such a inherently personal thing, its opinion around the world will be as divided as our own butts.
- stevenicr 5y agoI had thought similar for some years / decades.. the past few years my views on older people having sex / not / alot etc have changed quite a bit. Certainly there are some old couples that stay together without good sex for different reasons, religios beliefs and such... But if you are an intimate couple - that includes sex. If you are not having sex you are just roomates / friends - and there is nothing wrong with that. I know a few different people in thier 70's right now having really great sex because they have found new partners, and because it's great they are having a lot of it. So it could be less important if both people's only goals are stability or other goals - however we are seeing from reports in retirement communities and nursing homes that whether it is the loss of partner through death or divorce or just ageing single into a new community of options - that people are indeed searching for sexual compatibility as they age - often times with many more partners later in life than mid-life.
- koheripbal 5y ago...or maybe some people just get used to disappointment and masturbation?