This person is basically saying "show sympathy to those with intentionally despicable viewpoints, because maybe you can convert them". Stating this ulterior mot

This person is basically saying "show sympathy to those with intentionally despicable viewpoints, because maybe you can convert them". Stating this ulterior motive undermines the whole point - if your motivation is to change them, it is not to understand them or sympathize with them. It also begs the question: are these newly formed sympathizers susceptible to being converted themselves? Could the sympathy train lead to even more incels, not fewer?