Solo, one-on-one conversations all. One friend, recently married, much younger than I. Never brought up sex once in all the time I knew him, just casually dro

Solo, one-on-one conversations all. One friend, recently married, much younger than I. Never brought up sex once in all the time I knew him, just casually drops at a party while the two of us are alone in a hallway that the cliche was real. My longest friendship, married a woman who talked a good game, was very out and proud about her kinky background, and so on. Another dead bedroom, this usually mentioned during long car rides while we go out. She keeps saying that she'll try to do better but does nothing, meanwhile everything she has on the table is a crisis. And so on and so forth.