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I don't know a ton of married men but every last one of them has managed to let me know one way or another that their sex lives are essentially over. All of th
by at_a_remove 6y ago
I don't know a ton of married men but every last one of them has managed to let me know one way or another that their sex lives are essentially over. All of them. And it all seems to follow this cliche that people will scream at you does not exist.
- vb6sp6 6y agoAre these people explicitly telling you this? If a bunch of my married friends got together and started bitching about their sex lives, I might nod along in agreement even if my sex life isn't over.
- at_a_remove 6y agoSolo, one-on-one conversations all. One friend, recently married, much younger than I. Never brought up sex once in all the time I knew him, just casually drops at a party while the two of us are alone in a hallway that the cliche was real. My longest friendship, married a woman who talked a good game, was very out and proud about her kinky background, and so on. Another dead bedroom, this usually mentioned during long car rides while we go out. She keeps saying that she'll try to do better but does nothing, meanwhile everything she has on the table is a crisis. And so on and so forth.
- vb6sp6 6y agoThat's interesting. i googled around a bit but couldn't find any stats or studies on % of dead bedrooms. Maybe the myth is more common that we think