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> Yeah man I don't think I would classify a committed relationship where partners end up missing their partner when they're gone as "codependent". > I spent ev
by Nursie 6y ago
> Yeah man I don't think I would classify a committed relationship where partners end up missing their partner when they're gone as "codependent".
> I spent every day without her more or less miserable
This is a bit more than "missing" them.
- ratww 6y agoThis phrase is kinda ambiguous. I still don't understand if by that sentence the article author means he was miserable before, or if this means he misses her after just one day of her being away. "Spent" is in the past, so I assumed it's the former. I have the impression that people are talking about different things in some replies.
- La1n 6y agoBut; >It’s arguable she’s the only reason I’m able to be happy. Is less ambiguous. I would not want to be in a relationship with someone who is that dependent on me to be happy.
- Nursie 6y ago> I still don't understand if by that sentence the article author means he was miserable before, or if this means he misses her after just one day of her being away. Honestly to me it's not important, if it's either of those things, if it's misery every day without someone that's pretty extreme. IMHO, YMMV etc. Glad he's happy, but that's a lot to put on a partner.