> It seems like you're firmly on the side of the one with kids Not really. I think it's an interesting mental exercise and can see the pros and cons to all pat

> It seems like you're firmly on the side of the one with kids Not really. I think it's an interesting mental exercise and can see the pros and cons to all paths. I think the optimal path is a mixture of all three. Work hard enough to afford the life you want to live (ideally at a job that is itself gratifying and meaningful) and then fill the rest of the time with experiences shared with friends and family.