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You asked a dozen questions of me, and then the moment I ask a single question to you, you dodge it completely. C'mon dude. Stop. You should understand how e

by stale2002 6y ago

You asked a dozen questions of me, and then the moment I ask a single question to you, you dodge it completely. C'mon dude. Stop. You should understand how extremely bad faith that is. Unfortunately, if you are unwilling, or unable, to state a single reason yourself, as for the issues with someone who spent a decade in isolation, might be at least a little bit suspect regarding their opinions of social interaction, then I cannot help you, and nothing that I say is going to be able to adequately explain anything to you, because you are likely acting in bad faith. Here is some advice for you. The next time you are trying to interact with someone about a topic, you should not act in such bad faith with others, as it is difficult to have a conversation with a person such as yourself.

zepto 6y ago
> You asked a dozen questions of me, and then the moment I ask a single question to you, you dodge it completely. The single question to me being you asking if I can guess why you think the person is insane? My answer would be that you there is a narrow range of behavior you feel safe with, and that you find anything unusual to be threatening and so you label it as insane as a way to distance yourself from it. However this is just a generic guess that I would make about anyone who used the word insane without qualification. It’s not personal to you. That’s why I’m asking you the question - I’d be surprised if a generic guess is correct.
- stale2002 6y ago
  > My answer would be that you there is a narrow range of behavior you feel safe with, and that you find anything unusual to be threatening Alright, well you didn't give a good answer. Unfortunately, if you cannot figure out as for why someone who spent a decade in social isolation, might perhaps not be the best person to talk about normal social interactions (given that isolation is literally directly related to the question of social interactions and experience), then I can't help you. > if I can guess why you think the person is insane You can read my previous post/question. Do you understand how you have dishonestly just rephrased my question, in a way that I did not ask?
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  - zepto 6y ago
    There’s nothing dishonest about my phrasing. I asked you why you thought the person was insane. You asked me if I could figure it out some reasons. The only person who thinks the person is insane is you, so we are talking about your reasons.
    - stale2002 6y ago
      Do you understand how it is hard to take anything you say in good faith, when you were not able to figure out that a person who spent 10 years in social isolation, may not have a normal social experience, and therefore might not be the best person to get opinions about social topics, if we are looking for the opinion from a person who has a normal social experience?
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      - zepto 6y ago
        That’s not something I’m trying to figure out. I’m just asking why you think they are insane. Why not answer?
        stale2002 6y ago
        > That’s not something I’m trying to figure out. Do you agree that this is the case though? That someone who has spent a decade in isolation, is probably not the best person to get an opinion on, regarding normal social interations, of normal people?
        zepto 6y ago
        Why not say why you think they are insane? Also - how do you define ‘normal’? What does it mean to you? What do you think a normal social interaction is?

zepto 6y ago

> You asked a dozen questions of me, and then the moment I ask a single question to you, you dodge it completely. The single question to me being you asking if I can guess why you think the person is insane? My answer would be that you there is a narrow range of behavior you feel safe with, and that you find anything unusual to be threatening and so you label it as insane as a way to distance yourself from it. However this is just a generic guess that I would make about anyone who used the word insane without qualification. It’s not personal to you. That’s why I’m asking you the question - I’d be surprised if a generic guess is correct.

stale2002 6y ago
> My answer would be that you there is a narrow range of behavior you feel safe with, and that you find anything unusual to be threatening Alright, well you didn't give a good answer. Unfortunately, if you cannot figure out as for why someone who spent a decade in social isolation, might perhaps not be the best person to talk about normal social interactions (given that isolation is literally directly related to the question of social interactions and experience), then I can't help you. > if I can guess why you think the person is insane You can read my previous post/question. Do you understand how you have dishonestly just rephrased my question, in a way that I did not ask?
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- zepto 6y ago
  There’s nothing dishonest about my phrasing. I asked you why you thought the person was insane. You asked me if I could figure it out some reasons. The only person who thinks the person is insane is you, so we are talking about your reasons.
  - stale2002 6y ago
    Do you understand how it is hard to take anything you say in good faith, when you were not able to figure out that a person who spent 10 years in social isolation, may not have a normal social experience, and therefore might not be the best person to get opinions about social topics, if we are looking for the opinion from a person who has a normal social experience?
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    - zepto 6y ago
      That’s not something I’m trying to figure out. I’m just asking why you think they are insane. Why not answer?
      - stale2002 6y ago
        > That’s not something I’m trying to figure out. Do you agree that this is the case though? That someone who has spent a decade in isolation, is probably not the best person to get an opinion on, regarding normal social interations, of normal people?
        zepto 6y ago
        Why not say why you think they are insane? Also - how do you define ‘normal’? What does it mean to you? What do you think a normal social interaction is?