", one adult is constantly watching the kid, and the other is taking care of household tasks" I know I can't do any deep work, when it is my turn to watch our

", one adult is constantly watching the kid, and the other is taking care of household tasks" I know I can't do any deep work, when it is my turn to watch our toddler - but I am very capable of doing household related tasks, etc. And I also have to say, without trying to impose it, but I know this from other parents and sometimes from myself: you definitely can give too much attention to a child - unless you want them to become egocentric narcists, who think the whole world turns around them. Those childs will have a hard time later on, learning that this is not true. And everyone around them, will suffer with them. But of course, I don't know how you actually do things, but this is the image that came to my mind, a image I have seen quite a lot in my generation.