Argh this is my problem at my current company except I’m not even particularly introverted. I made lifelong friends at my previous small company but after four

Argh this is my problem at my current company except I’m not even particularly introverted. I made lifelong friends at my previous small company but after four years at my current “top tier” company I got nothing, maybe one strong lead... in another state. We’re likable people and make friends quickly but nobody has time for a deeper connection, nobody wants to spend evenings or weekends doing bonding’y stuff (and I’m not into sports). Like others here I tried finding local friends through groups, other dads, school events, etc but get nowhere. I’m honestly considering either switching back to a small cultish company or moving to a smaller town both of which have their own problems but... guess I could try softball It doesn’t exactly make me happy others have this same problem but I’m glad I’m not alone.