I got it, and indeed if you read it at “talking speed” it works ok. By the way, I also appreciated the post. I’ve been in similar situations in several occasio

I got it, and indeed if you read it at “talking speed” it works ok. By the way, I also appreciated the post. I’ve been in similar situations in several occasions and never quite figured out how to avoid stigma and bad feelings for stepping on other peoples’ ego. I’ll give your technique a try