I don’t know why this is being downvoted. I would say that plenty of people have kids by accident or because it’s expected of them then biology takes over. I

I don’t know why this is being downvoted. I would say that plenty of people have kids by accident or because it’s expected of them then biology takes over. I would say people that know they want kids 100% from the get go are probably in the minority it doesn’t mean that those who don’t love their kids any less or aren’t as good of a parent. It also doesn’t mean that you can’t feel that you want kids and then regret it once reality sinks in.