With the first kid, I wouldn’t have chosen his mom, I should have shopped around more. It’s cost me a ton of money, and my health dealing with her after the fa

With the first kid, I wouldn’t have chosen his mom, I should have shopped around more. It’s cost me a ton of money, and my health dealing with her after the fact. Kid is 11 now, and doing pretty well all things considered, but it’s been a long road to get here. At least I have legal custody and get to make decisions vs letting conspiracy theories inform all decisions. With the 2nd kid, I chose wisely, and no issues with my wife, and she’s a great step mom to my 2nd kid.