And you are assuming that people who are hurt don't want allies to take up their hurts. Some people can only win with allies, and that means people who don't sh

And you are assuming that people who are hurt don't want allies to take up their hurts. Some people can only win with allies, and that means people who don't share the same hurts taking them up as burdens of their own anyway. And you know, democracy is all about coalition building.