Would 'your own' not at least also imply bare metal? Kubernetes on standard hosting hosting (without special routers/private networking) seems a pita. I want my

Would 'your own' not at least also imply bare metal? Kubernetes on standard hosting hosting (without special routers/private networking) seems a pita. I want my own because I want to get away from the big hosters, but seems no boxed solutions with kubernetes cater for that. Or maybe I just do not know them yet; I have asked around a lot. (The load balancer is the issue: there seem no good ingress solutions if you do not have hardware support even though there are lb as a service like cloudflare and software loadbalancers which are not supported. Again as far as I can find)