The default boundary should be "I do not want to have sex with you". It's even more important when one person is in a position of power and when there's an inh

The default boundary should be "I do not want to have sex with you". It's even more important when one person is in a position of power and when there's an inherent element of trust (teacher, mentor, etc.) because it's going to be much more complicated for a person to set appropriate boundaries and feel like they can say no to them. This is someone they looked up to and respected!