> It's also strange to me that it takes months and consultation with a therapist to determine if you did or did not consent. It would have been strange to me.

> It's also strange to me that it takes months and consultation with a therapist to determine if you did or did not consent. It would have been strange to me. But I was recently victim of emotional abuse by someone I admired and trusted. And it is not strange to me anymore. Abusers are sophisticated. Trust is a complex thing.