Hello. A few answers... >> But does a person not have some responsibility here to not get so intoxicated when alone with a member of the opposite sex in a priv

Hello. A few answers... >> But does a person not have some responsibility here to not get so intoxicated when alone with a member of the opposite sex in a private space? No. You are shifting the blame to the victim here. You should not be assaulted/attacked/whatever whether you are sober, tipsy, drunk, unconscious.