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Defeatism FTW? If there's anything the PUA community shows[0], it's that social skills can be learned. It's also easy to get to a medium level of fitness, espe
by ianterrell 15y ago
Defeatism FTW?
If there's anything the PUA community shows[0], it's that social skills can be learned. It's also easy to get to a medium level of fitness, especially in our culture of sloth.
Sure, he's 11, so maybe it's not that easy, but what's really going to hold him back isn't his "geekiness," it will be his mental habit of shying away from growth opportunities due to fear and "oh I just can't help it!"
[0] not an endorsement of that community, btw, except for Neil Strauss's The Game, which is a fun read