> • Bad things can happen fast, but almost all good things happen slowly. This one hit me. My last relationship came very suddenly. From day one, things seeme

> • Bad things can happen fast, but almost all good things happen slowly. This one hit me. My last relationship came very suddenly. From day one, things seemed intensely good. Then one day, things became, well, intensely bad. The phrase is obvious now I see it but I didn't recognize while I lived it.