I also didn't enjoy Surely Joking, for the exactly the same reasons. In part this is in Feynman, in part this is on society being more accepting of this behavi

I also didn't enjoy Surely Joking, for the exactly the same reasons. In part this is in Feynman, in part this is on society being more accepting of this behavior back then. People pick behavior by immitating what's around them. I for one am glad that expectations for conduct, but also available role models are at a higher standard today.