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I never felt at home anywhere and I never felt to be part of a group. Somehow people around me always think the opposite. They're telling me I'm their best fri
by k__ 6y ago
I never felt at home anywhere and I never felt to be part of a group.
Somehow people around me always think the opposite. They're telling me I'm their best friend or at least that they value my attendance.
Overall, I'm okay with this. When I have to move or leave a group, I usually don't miss what I've left. I have the impression my life gets better when it changes.
But sometimes I think if my life would be better if I was more invested in belonging.
- grugagag 6y agoI’ve got a similar feeling. I’ve been friends with many people from different from different social categories but I’ve never felt I belonged to any particular group or place. At the time, somehow, I feel like a citizen belinging everywhere as I find joy in authenticity and have no trouble finding it in the most deserted or dilapidated places. Did you also feel like a wanderer? I think this is directly related to our personalities and no matter what you run into you’ll never get the feeling you you belong.
- k__ 6y agoI think, the authenticity thing is true for me. I rarely do smalltalk, I talk about what interests me, usually the people I'm currently talking with.