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This is exactly what Imposter Syndrome is. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impostor_syndrome https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impostor_syndrome Intelligence itself
by yabones 6y ago
This is exactly what Imposter Syndrome is. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impostor_syndrome https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impostor_syndrome
Intelligence itself is an abstract concept. There are so many things that go into it, and nobody has all of it. Maybe one person every 10 years, but they live in a garden shed and go insane. My partner and I are both "smart" people, but in very different ways. My memory is shit, theirs is fantastic. I struggle to remember what groceries to pick up, they can count cards. But based on that one factor nobody would say that I'm a dumb person.
When you're starting out, things are always going to be tough. When I was a college grad it took me 40 interviews to get a job. Unfortunately, there's a disconnect between recruiters and reality - don't get discouraged.
There's something kind of awful in 'tech culture' that rewards the boy genius rather than somebody willing to put in the work. You don't walk onto a construction site and see a few expertly laid bricks and everybody gone for the day. Work ethic is the most important thing, in my opinion. If you have that, you'll be successful.
- 2cb 5y agoMan I been working in a tech job I got without even a degree for two years. I was literally told by the HR dept that the boss was set on hiring me as soon as we met because I was apparently so far above every other candidate. Still I feel imposter syndrome like any day now they’ll work out I’m not as great as they think I am and I’ll lose my career. Totally irrational but I got low self-esteem. I also have ADHD among other things but the Dexedrine helps me focus on anything. Feels like Limitless pills.