If you're starting this trail of thought from where you're starting it, you're gonna have a bad time. It should not be "in place X there are women, so I am goi

If you're starting this trail of thought from where you're starting it, you're gonna have a bad time. It should not be "in place X there are women, so I am going to get one." It should be "person X is a nice person I like. I will see if she also likes me, and if yes, we might work something out." In other words: You're talking like it is a pond with fish and any you pull out will be good for eating. That is not a healthy attitude to have towards people. And it will rightfully annoy them once they find out, which they likely will.