If you're basing your argument of the gender precedence of 'guys' on 'Guys and Dolls', I think I'm comfortable in my opinion that this is a made up problem. >

If you're basing your argument of the gender precedence of 'guys' on 'Guys and Dolls', I think I'm comfortable in my opinion that this is a made up problem. > Surely you know some folks who gave challenges in their lives that others callously dismiss as not a big deal. Sure do. And they recognised that those problems were their own that they needed to overcome. Not insist that everyone else change to accommodate them.