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With and without kids makes a huge difference. Without kids and if your an introvert- it’s a no brained. Buy you that 15 acre ranch (just for looks, we know you

by dnndev 5y ago

With and without kids makes a huge difference. Without kids and if your an introvert- it’s a no brained. Buy you that 15 acre ranch (just for looks, we know your a programmer) If you have kids stay close to a larger city. Your kids will have more opportunity. For anyone else looking. We took a two month road trip during the worst time of year (climate wise) and took a road trip to see where liked it best. We chose North Carolina and love it.

dagw 5y ago
Without kids and if your an introvert- it’s a no brained. Buy you that 15 acre ranch Back when I was a childless introvert, living on a 15 acre ranch by myself would have been living hell, and would no doubt have done terrible things to my mental health. I might not like being social, but I still went out to concerts, movies, restaurants and similar (often by myself) and doing so was always mentally invigorating. Plus going to the pub with that one friend I did have was very necessary for my mental health. Being an introvert doesn't mean you don't want to be around civilization. As a childless introvert having a small apartment in the middle of town where I could walk everywhere was the obvious no brainier, and worth every penny.
- sneak 5y ago
  > Being an introvert doesn't mean you don't want to be around civilization. As someone who lived in Manhattan, I used to believe this. Then the pandemic happened, and I watched how our so-called "civilization" handled it. I could not really imagine a worse outcome: it was mismanaged and terrible from the highest levels of authority down to the most insignificant end-user. Now this introvert very much wants the option of being not around civilization at times. I don't trust civilization to remain civilized, in even a minor pinch. I will likely build a house 100km from anything, and spend 25-50% of each year there.
wjamesg 5y ago
RTP?
- dnndev 5y ago
  RTP!

by dnndev 5y ago

dagw 5y ago

Without kids and if your an introvert- it’s a no brained. Buy you that 15 acre ranch Back when I was a childless introvert, living on a 15 acre ranch by myself would have been living hell, and would no doubt have done terrible things to my mental health. I might not like being social, but I still went out to concerts, movies, restaurants and similar (often by myself) and doing so was always mentally invigorating. Plus going to the pub with that one friend I did have was very necessary for my mental health. Being an introvert doesn't mean you don't want to be around civilization. As a childless introvert having a small apartment in the middle of town where I could walk everywhere was the obvious no brainier, and worth every penny.

sneak 5y ago
> Being an introvert doesn't mean you don't want to be around civilization. As someone who lived in Manhattan, I used to believe this. Then the pandemic happened, and I watched how our so-called "civilization" handled it. I could not really imagine a worse outcome: it was mismanaged and terrible from the highest levels of authority down to the most insignificant end-user. Now this introvert very much wants the option of being not around civilization at times. I don't trust civilization to remain civilized, in even a minor pinch. I will likely build a house 100km from anything, and spend 25-50% of each year there.

wjamesg 5y ago

RTP?

dnndev 5y ago
RTP!