"You don't have as good a sense of relevance/irrelevance unless you are an expert." -- there is actually another skill here, which is the ability to model how o

"You don't have as good a sense of relevance/irrelevance unless you are an expert." -- there is actually another skill here, which is the ability to model how other people think. You may be gifted with this ability. Communicating facts within the context (relevancy, language, etc) of the person you are talking to is difficult for many people. Most people use "I" statements, and communicate the details from how they see the world.