Saying someone is responsible for themselves really doesn't help them. It's like telling a depressed person that they should be happy. They need help. Because

Saying someone is responsible for themselves really doesn't help them. It's like telling a depressed person that they should be happy. They need help. Because in the end, we're all interdependent and dependent on each other. I had to tell myself that I am the hero or villain of my own story after some help. Still, it's an absolutely painful journey sometime.