Maybe think about why people call you a rape apologist. You are not technically wrong but the context in which you present this makes it very tacky. We can al

Maybe think about why people call you a rape apologist. You are not technically wrong but the context in which you present this makes it very tacky. We can always talk about corner cases and what not but in a civilized society always ensuring the consent of both parties to the fullest extend is a reasonable stance to take. And yes, violating this rule and failing to acquire to get consent from the other party is a form of violence.