Same. My wife and I actually live within the lowest salary between the two of us so we have no stress even if one of us loses our job. We have an emergency fund

Same. My wife and I actually live within the lowest salary between the two of us so we have no stress even if one of us loses our job. We have an emergency fund and invest the hell out of the rest of the money. That means the second salary is like a year round bonus, which lets us take nice vacations, buy our kids nice stuff, buy nice cars, pay for our kid's college when that time comes, etc. Our actual bonuses go into the year round bonus fund.