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Yes, indeed, we should all learn not to use our emotions in online discussions. People will say and do things that they would never say in real life, even under
by bserge 6y ago
Yes, indeed, we should all learn not to use our emotions in online discussions. People will say and do things that they would never say in real life, even under their real name, because of the disconnection from the actual person hearing/reading/seeing that.
Funnily enough, this is how I quit Imgur for good. It's amazing. I posted something that I believed was right and got downvoted to hell.
So I started asking people "why, why do you downvote?" and got mostly laughs, memes and people calling me stupid. Except one person, who said "you care way too much about this". Indeed, I did. Thank you random person!
Not sure why but it affected me more on Imgur. Maybe it's the length of the comments? The memes that encompass a thousand words, as they say? Regardless, I just deleted my account and never went back. It's great.
Still trying to quit Reddit and HN, but they're good resources if you ignore all the stupidity. Imgur is bottom of the barrel social media, but it was fun.
And of course, this is used by various media outlets, has been for a long time.
It's all about eliciting emotions, which come from the primitive part of the brain, bypassing any advanced conscious analysis and engaging the impulse to do either what you're told (good for sales) or the opposite of it (good for spreading a message) or something in between, but it's a response that you will remember and most likely take action.
I forgot what I was trying to say. Somehow Facebook never got me, it's just a useless platform aside from contacting people.
- towergratis 6y agoIt does affect you. Because you get the feeling you are "part" of the community. I used to be very active in HN until I got into a heated discussion with someone and since then my HN "flag" privileges were stripped away. I know I shouldn't care, but I couldn't help it. Now I am just lurking on HN and rarely reply with this new account using TOR and care as little about "karma" as I do about "producing value" with my replies to HN.
- doublerabbit 6y agoFeel the same. HN is exactly the same as Reddit, just a different crowd and less edge. It's nice to think that you can have a civil discussion on the HN platform but you can't. The whole internet karma/points is a flawed system. For HN: You should have to give a reason to down votes. To give someone downvote permissions and then allow them to downvote on something they bias, isn't far.
- NateEag 6y ago> For HN: You should have to give a reason to down votes. To give someone downvote permissions and then allow them to downvote on something they bias, isn't far. Because no one would ever lie or put noise in the "why I downvoted" field.
- doublerabbit 6y agoAnd In that case they don't get to down vote. Problem solved. See downvoted already, point proven.
- anoncake 6y agoYou can't detect lies.
- shadowgovt 6y agoI believe slashdot experimented with meta-moderation for that issue, but I actually never found out what came of that system.
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