General intelligence - if you are too intelligent you might become arrogant and have difficulties putting yourself in other people's shoes. Attractiveness - yo

General intelligence - if you are too intelligent you might become arrogant and have difficulties putting yourself in other people's shoes. Attractiveness - you might focus so much in your appearance that other parts of your life get left behind. Think on the Hollywood stars that end up with a crappy life somehow. I've also seen women that are too attractive being chased by aggressive men, which becomes very inconvenient for them. Good judgement and rapport building are qualities that usually require avoiding the extremes, so I don't think it applies here.