Another thought that people might dv without considering it from an intellectual perspective: Dispensing with incel negativity.. OTOH, let's consider attractive

Another thought that people might dv without considering it from an intellectual perspective: Dispensing with incel negativity.. OTOH, let's consider attractive people who are accosted by people who just want to have sex with them without knowing them. That seems to feel similarly lonely, yes? I mean, I'm no one special at all, but it feels weird in such examples as: you were chased around the playground by groups of the opposite gender before you understood, girls on the elementary school bus flashed you below their waists, much later a woman ditches her friend for you in the middle of the street, a woman wants you to get with her girlfriends, a woman pulls over and stops her car in the middle of traffic to make a proposal, or someone just comes right up to you and starts grinding on your leg after talking for 30 seconds. How can someone find intimacy if they're always anxious about not being appreciated as a person?