>hardest disorder to cure ...if they don't want to change. That is a true statement. But, if they do want to change, it's relatively straight-forward. BTW the

>hardest disorder to cure ...if they don't want to change. That is a true statement. But, if they do want to change, it's relatively straight-forward. BTW the thing you can control is not your actions, or even your reactions, but rather your attention. The best thing a narcissist can do is learn to see themselves in others. Modulo the risk of projection (that is, ascribing too much commonality to the other), it's a nice judo move to turn a dark quality into a light one.