Definitely a defensible position, and one I agree with. This is not a rebuttal your point, but to the general conversation I would add: we should strive to be a

Definitely a defensible position, and one I agree with. This is not a rebuttal your point, but to the general conversation I would add: we should strive to be able to work well with people we dislike. (and where possible, strive to find ways to like those people too.)