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You could say it's special pleading on my part, but for the continuation of homo sapiens, sex is required (at least for now). > violence, incest, tribalism, an
by vict7 5y ago
You could say it's special pleading on my part, but for the continuation of homo sapiens, sex is required (at least for now).
> violence, incest, tribalism, and other undesirable evolutionary behaviors
None of the explicitly mentioned things in this list are similarly essential to the continuation of humans and human civilization. Like violence may in reality be unavoidable, but that doesn't mean it's strictly necessary.
But I do agree that appeal to nature alone isn't very strong. Like to me, I guess it's moreso what seems like extreme impracticality in trying to control people's sexuality to a finer degree than is already in place.
- umvi 5y ago> I guess it's moreso what seems like extreme impracticality in trying to control people's sexuality to a finer degree than is already in place. I agree trying to "control" people's sexuality is extremely impractical. That's why I think it needs to be more a cultural value that we collectively decide is worth teaching to kids (and leading by example), not something the government forces on us. I think that would work because it worked for me and my extended family as far as I can tell (with a few exceptions).
- emodendroket 5y agoHow exactly do you expect to impose this value on everyone else who doesn’t share it with you?
- umvi 5y agoI don't want to impose the value on people that don't share it with me. I want to convince people to share the value with me first and rely on network effects to convince others to share the value until those that don't share it are in a minority.
- emodendroket 5y agoYes but how? Is it really realistic to expect the people in this story are going to be talked into monogamy?
- umvi 5y agoThe people specifically in the story? Probably not. Americans in general over a period of time? Maybe. I could see a "religious renaissance" happening at some point where religion goes on the rise again if/when people become disillusioned with secularism/nihilism/etc, a side effect of which would be people being "talked into monogamy"
- emodendroket 5y agoThe actual trend with religion is precisely the opposite.
- vict7 5y agoIsn't this still a form of control? Like the idea here is to psychologically manipulate people to have different values? What happens when some people don't respond to this proposed conditioning? I would like to believe I have somewhat of a unique perspective on this. I was raised with the exact cultural values you talk about, and I ultimately chose to reject them (at least partially). However, I do want to acknowledge what seems like a destabilizing, negative effect "hookup culture" or the like has had on society. Dating apps are part of this whole issue as well. My own position is that I want to be in a committed relationship but never married. So I guess you could peg me as a serial monogamist.