1. ask questions and frame your thoughts as questions to others and be interested in the answers. my external confidence comes from my absolute confidence that

1. ask questions and frame your thoughts as questions to others and be interested in the answers. my external confidence comes from my absolute confidence that I am sincerely interested. 2. Improv, or be funny. 3. Olivia Cabane's "The Charisma Myth" https://www.amazon.com/Charisma-Myth-Science-Personal-Magnetism/dp/1591845947 https://www.amazon.com/Charisma-Myth-Science-Personal-Magnet...