With my current android phone, I have deliberately limited what I put on it. I got so sick of update churn. Together with app owners selling out to malware typ

With my current android phone, I have deliberately limited what I put on it. I got so sick of update churn. Together with app owners selling out to malware types, and I see a lack of updates as a blessing. I want to buy an app version and use that app version until I decide otherwise. Ideally, when I run an app, inform me there is an update, let me know the benefits, and let me decide if I want to install or not, before or after using the app on this occasion.