There may be something to what you say. But on the other hand, there's that old adage: if you meet an asshole one day, you met an asshole. If _everybody_ you me

There may be something to what you say. But on the other hand, there's that old adage: if you meet an asshole one day, you met an asshole. If _everybody_ you meet during the day is an asshole, then _you're_ the asshole.