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This is like saying that when you shoot someone, it's the bullet that killed them, not you. Maybe it's technically true but it's not very useful, it's just peda
by wetmore 6y ago
This is like saying that when you shoot someone, it's the bullet that killed them, not you. Maybe it's technically true but it's not very useful, it's just pedantry used in an attempt to deny culpability.
- artificialLimbs 6y agoIt is not like saying that at all. The emotional world is connected with but is not exclusively the physical world. Putting the responsibility for one's emotional responses on another is the denying of culpability for one's self. I find it is useful to be wary of those who find it useful to point a finger and say 'he/she did this to me' when they become emotionally hurt or even happy, knowing they will non-usefully invariably want me to be nanny or projection target for their other emotions when they arise in whatever manifestation.