All I want is for people to stop thinking that I'm doing this on purpose. Somewhat jokingly: maybe you should start doing it on purpose, and call it "prioritiz

All I want is for people to stop thinking that I'm doing this on purpose. Somewhat jokingly: maybe you should start doing it on purpose, and call it "prioritizing what matters." If you can afford to hire someone to clean, do that. But seriously, this sentence really resonated with me. When I was in my teens and early 20s, a lot of things I couldn't change were being labeled as intentional laziness or sometimes drug abuse (I was in reality coding all night because highschool sucked, and never even touched so much as alcohol until my late 20s).