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DNRs are very common in America for a reason separate from the rest of the world - elsewhere they tend to be mostly a philosophical choice to minimize your own
by munk-a 6y ago
DNRs are very common in America for a reason separate from the rest of the world - elsewhere they tend to be mostly a philosophical choice to minimize your own personal pain and cost on society. In America they primarily exist to shield family members from cost - it isn't uncommon for a funeral to be accompanied by a lot of additional stress because your father was kept alive for five additional days at a cost of 50k/day and suddenly the surviving family is trying to sort out grief, finding a quarter of a million dollars (or potentially sending the entire estate into bankruptcy) and the additional tens of thousands of dollars funerals cost.
Death in America is pretty darn expensive.
Edit: I'd clarify something - in the US (like almost everywhere) debt cannot be inherited alone. An estate can be declared bankrupt when someone dies and then debtors are limited to just taking chunks out of the estate to the best of their ability - but if shared property is held by the deceased then it can cause serious harm to inheritors. My favorite example is a multi-generational house which can force inheritors into debt to keep the roof over their head.
- gambiting 6y ago>> in the US (like almost everywhere) debt cannot be inherited alone In Poland(where I'm from) it can. When my father died I basically had to make a choice within a few weeks of his death - either refuse the inheritance entirely, or accept it with all his known and unknown debts. The second options meaning that if someone comes to me in 10 years time saying "hey I have this paper signed by your dad 20 years ago saying he owes me a million dollars" well, I now legally owe this person a million dollars. There is no concept of an estate of the deceased that gets settled first before any inheritance is given out(if anything remains). No, you have to make a choice whether you accept everything(including debts) or literally nothing at all. And you have to make the choice quickly because you cannot manage anything owned or related to the deceased(their bank accounts, mortgages etc) until you make the decision.