You don't need ruder friends, you need a partner or two who are equally enthusiastic, nay who are BANKING on that project succeeding. Hopefully they are banking

You don't need ruder friends, you need a partner or two who are equally enthusiastic, nay who are BANKING on that project succeeding. Hopefully they are banking on it because they are really passionate about the idea and really want to get out of the boring day job. Like you, I spent almost 3 years trying to start one project after another that fizzled out. For some I even had a partner. Unfortunately it was always a "side project" for one or both of us. Till I reached a point of desperation and frustration with not doing my own thing, and till I found partners passionate about the project just because, I found it pretty hard to get up at 5 to code too. Now I know I'll let not just myself but also them down if I show up without getting my stuff done. Seriously, the formula to finally starting a startup is simple a) Get desperate (passionate) b) Find similarly desperate (passionate) folks.