My experience- I had my first kid when I was totally broke. Working multiple minimum wage jobs. Everything was thrift store, hand-me-down, government assistance

My experience- I had my first kid when I was totally broke. Working multiple minimum wage jobs. Everything was thrift store, hand-me-down, government assistance. Instead of child care, I worked every day and night so our kids could be with their mother. As I built my career, my lifestyle inflated, and so did the kid’s expenses. We make in 3 days what used to take us a month. The kids get to share our lifestyle with us. It’s probably different for us because we’ve never been well off + not have kids.