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She's as stuck with you as you are with her. You are allowed to stand up for yourself.

• giantg2 6y ago
  Eh, the courts seem to be notoriously biased, so I doubt she's equally stuck.
  • Aunche 6y ago
    No matter how rigged the courts are, it can't be worse than spending 100% of your money taking care of the two of you. You'll still need to stay in the same city for custody, but at least you can switch to a less stressful job. Also, you should keep your eyes peeled for remote jobs.
    • giantg2 6y ago
      "...but at least you can switch to a less stressful job." Nope, the courts will force child support and probably alimony based on the current job rather than some lower paying job one might get during/after any divorce.
      • Aunche 6y ago
        How much lower paying are we talking about here? Alimony probably isn't going to be a big deal, since I'm assuming by the age of your child you haven't been married for too long.
  • croh 6y ago
    This is not good advice but as you stuck. Learn to lie and be manipulative.