As others have said, working for a non-software (ideally non-computer) company is a good place to start. Pay will be relatively low, you'll have little choice a

As others have said, working for a non-software (ideally non-computer) company is a good place to start. Pay will be relatively low, you'll have little choice about the technologies or types of programming you work on, but the pace/intensity will be very low too. If you become the expert for some in-house system written in a language or framework nobody else even heard of that can be even better as long as that system lasts. Some people have even made careers out of building such systems as contractors and then making money off them for years, but that only works for people who have no ethics.