Sounds like those coworkers weren’t really looking to socialize and had other priorities. But again, it’s being setup as a false choice - if it’s important to

Sounds like those coworkers weren’t really looking to socialize and had other priorities. But again, it’s being setup as a false choice - if it’s important to your orgs culture all you need to do is setup pre-arranged times for it, much like you pre-arrange a working schedule and have expectations on when people are in the office. It’s just not every day.